To love

Can we love something without giving and on the other hand, can we give without loving? This is an eternal cliché but what do we love when we give and what can we give without loving. Love is an intention and not an act. The intention often derived from the act itself.

Love is a risk, love without risk is like water without a cup. When we incapable of choosing one over the other, there is no love but a form of norm. Love is not a norm. Love in itself derive from something internal driven by something external.

When we are incapable of loving, we are incapable of giving. Love is embracing, in a manner which covers everything but not just what one sees. we give everything including ourselves when we love. This means that to love someone is include everything about the person include it's every single thought, action and movement.

To exchange love for something else is to exchange your money for air. It is free, but you wish to pay for it. It is free because it comes from the intention and never from the act itself. A is not B and not B is not A. A is A and B is B- no matter how hard you deconstruct or break it down- that is love.

To risk is human nature for human endeavor and to love means losing something. It means placing something in the hands of others in the hope of better future. Hence to love is to give- to love is to give your hope away in the wish for a better life.

Love is embracing and cannot be compartmentalized. Everything else can be. To give up on love is to add up your sums and it always tallies- goodbye.