Love

What is the difference between passion and maturity? Passion is loving and seeing one step ahead and maturity is thinking and seeing nine steps ahead. Hence passion is instinctive and therefore maturity is one with the third person perspective. Hence is love by definition then short term, and maturity devoid of it? That is not true.

Love enjoys destruction and creation both at the same time hence it's fluid nature. Without fluidity, it is really just pure evil. Maturity on the other hand builds relationships- it does not destroy neither does it creates but it builds hence it lacks a very visceral experience.

Hence if love is emotive- and that's happens when one is young- one often go around searching for love. It often builds as fast as it collapses. But if one views love as building networks and expanding one's capability to last, insofar then, the building then is slow burning but inter-related network meant that the relationship would last.

Therefore those who jump the gun or jumped in too fast, often find themselves empty-handed. They might have the first-mover advantage but very often, they rely on pure finesse and dexterity to get by and everything goes with age. Hence getting in as fast as one getting out is of critical importance. But love is delicate issue. Getting in and getting out fast might mean never getting back in again. Once broken, one would have to moved on.

Hence if you want a longer lasting one, albeit a less visceral one, one cannot be too instinctive and rely purely on testosterone or oestrogen. If you want the shapely and comely girl, one better ask, can you afford it? If you want the hunky beefcake, can you control him? If you want it, it is highly likely then, alot of other's want it as well.

Hence, one then realise, in order to get Adonis or Aphrodite would then be impossible- hence everyone would compromise and therefore give and take a couple of flaws and qualities. It would then come to this end where: the rich and powerful would get the shapely, comely and probably air-head girls which would be love of the first example- the shapely, comely and smart girls often end up getting rich and successful for the first decade of her adulthood and depending on her ambitions, either become rich man's wife and doing charity for the rest of her life or if she is independent enough, she seek a less powerful and successful man and live vicariously through him- which is love of the second example.

Well for the rest of us, we read magazines and gossip pages to find out how these people are doing. Meanwhile, in our lives, we would then have to compromise on the flaws and qualities unless we hear rock music and shoot the breeze. Then the girls would buy insurance protection on you then and lived off your death.

Well, when we are young, we often find a surge in emotions and hormones and looking for new experiences- but before you take it too seriously, ask yourself this question: what are you losing and what do you have to fall back on?