Hypocrites and Parasites

Hypocrisy is a word not often mention in the same breath as your loved ones, family and friends. Indeed it is a word mentioned in the same breath as your enemies.

And what if your friends, loved ones are hypocrites, hence by definition your enemies. Let us examine therefore what makes one an hypocrite and then ultimately your truest nemesis.

Hypocrites really by itself it means doing one thing while meaning or saying another. It means an act or action in itself is served by only self-interest and is only masked by false pretense or act to hide it's malicious intent.

A hypocrite in the highest form therefore convinces the victim of it's self-sacrifice and therefore gains it's favour while ultimately plotting it's demise. It means killing you while convincing the victim and everyone else he/she is the good guy.

Therefore by it's definition, a hypocrite is often the person closest to you which can gain maximum favour while inflicting maximum damage. Using a national analogy, it is treason of the highest order on a personal basis.

And therefore a hypocrite is master emotional manipulator. It creates conflict between those that have contararian interest to his/her's, weakens those with the biggest threat and would form alliances even with unscrupulous insofar that would serves his/her interest.

He or she knows that to defeat a nemesis is not win him/her but is to break his/her will. He/she is ultimately a parasite and virus that if not stopped will cause disharmony and will rob everyone else of his/her dignity for his/her own gain.

How then does one spot such a parasitic hypocrite- who shape-shifts to his/her advantage?

Find the decision-maker and those that can influence the mood of situation to shape decisions to his/her advantage- and you can find that hypocrite. In other words, find rich and powerful among the group and you can find the biggest hypocrite within the group.

Bear that in mind, a hypocrite always have his/her self-interest at heart- hence if he/she does or say sudden things that would exploit an awkward situation or act as "incredibly" weak.

In order words, all actions are exaggerated are aimed at maximizing emotional intensity- either positive or negative. then henceforth you find that despicable hypocrite.

And you find that hypocrite, never soften that heart. Because, that is exactly the point. Only by maximizing that emotional intensity, can he/she break your will or made you do something that you otherwise would not.

Always remember they hide behind shadows and would never show their true intentions, because if they would, they would dilute it's effect and can on longer can be "fly on the wall" and "parasites" at the same time.

And they are deeply neurotic and pathetic creatures as well because they keep their anger, sadness to themselves so as to prevent exposure. There would be Freudian Slip- like those of a careless snide remark.

Very often they are those with that perfect act to demonstrate their sachharine wholesomeness and almost that perfect person except for that one "bad person" who seem to be stopping him/her from being perfect. Once, a name comes up, that "exception" to his/her "perfectness", welcome you have been played.

They are wrapping their vine around you; wringing deep hatred or anger or sympathy towards or against their target- depending on their intentions- so as to get what they want. They would maximize that feeling towards or against that person- causing exaggerated rift or sympathies.

The act itself- right or wrong- is no longer important, it is that emotion attached to this person that would short-circuit the brain and would induce anger or sympathies which is their ultimate aim. They have form a shortcut, personna or stereotype to your judgement- both emotional and rational- at the mere mention or appearance of the name, person or group. Indeed that is the beauty of stigma or stereotypes that they have covertly exploited.

Yes, they are despicable and yes, they are all around. And yes, they are disgusting. And yes, they are unscrupulous and always remember they have no heart except those of their own.

Always remember they are parasites and should be removed at all cost- otherwise they would jeopardize group dynamics. And unfortunately, they do not have a big word: "parasite" on their forehead. But they are when you find one- very often they are just next to you.

Take care and nights.

Eugene