I used to say that everything and all choices are relative. This means that decisions are all made of context and environment. I have began to realise that people, men especially put an extra premium on sex, relationships and love now. This means that they put in so much effort in impressing the opposite sex and making sure that the above three goes their way that they seem to sacrifice everything in their way.
I think I have riled and run down quite a few young guys with the last few posts and there are some old men that want to have a say in the whole argument. In reality, the whole argument is just simply simple and quick observations wrapped around some thoughts and ideas in my head that's all.
But I have began to notice some old men really out a lot more premium into these three things. It is really true that we are getting richer and more comfortable and there is no other age more appropriate that there is no tradeoff between sex and money than old age.
But I have began to notice this really strange phenomenon that just because you are old and with some form respectability, it means that sex with younger women is a given. It is not a given simply because there is no tradeoff between money and sex.
Of course the thought of wrinkly and sagging skin on top of young and virile woman is extremely disgusting but this thought never seem to cross the thoughts of old men with loosening skin. There is a loosening of sexual mores- that's for sure- sex for money is really not as strongly frown as they used to be say a few decades ago; but nonetheless it also does not mean that that the "unnatural" nature of it comes to play.
I have always evoked the "biological determinism" argument to support certain propositions that seem a little "different.". But this is not the place to evoke "biological determinism" simply for one reason, everything goes to shit after sexual transmitted disease and 35 for women. Hence this counter argument is not only non-scientific, it is also morally wrong in all context.
Just because old men with money with no tradeoff with money/sex does not make it any right for an old men to assert it's sexual rights over younger women. Just as long as the tradeoff is not sex and survival, the morality really stands quite strong on it's own.
Just now at the traffic junction an old man ran so much faster ahead of me as if like there was a piece of meat in front when he saw a sweet young thing in front of him. I mean he is not going to rape her but the idea already put really strange thoughts in his head.
Old men with sweet young things has been going on for a long time and it will probably carry on for a long time simply because the unequal power relationship makes enticing for both parties. But as I said that it is frown upon and will continue to be frown upon- not just because now old men with money can afford sweet young things and they are getting more materialistic but rather the realities and practicalities of entire situation is really "unnatural" in all forms of arrangements "scientific" or otherwise.
I have reached a age where sex is no longer as important as it is suppose to be. This means that I can go with or without it. But it really doesn't mean that I don't notice what other's are doing around me. Sometimes, the manner which old men conduct themselves in public is almost disgraceful that it smacks almost that the only justification holding their act together is this money/sex tradeoff thing.
We should not do think of all sorts of ways to get sex but it doesn't means that just because we have nothing to lose means that it is our god given right to pursue with wild abundance.
[ Get a red sports car for crying out. If not get one from "Matchbox"]
Monday, December 16, 2013
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