Frenemies

Some people may not like what they read here but well, the reason I never really openly share this link because I leave it to you read and decide whether it is worth coming back or worth the thrash.

There are some people whom take a decision away from me when I have not really decided and concluded then: a non-action means a particular direction. And from there, the deduction is made then on my preferences from A to Z and every other number under the sun.

Yes, life is about choices- but life is not only about choices. There isn't a need to decide when there are many other things that are more important or more palatable at the point in time. No, is not forever and yes is not necessary everlasting. And if one wishes to so wish to decide to live a life according to these decision rules- I would not stop you just don't include me in the little game. And if you so wish to form an opinion according to these decision rules- be my guest- but before one wants to do that, please firstly look at the particular position one is in before making any judgement- and if from there, there is an unerring decision, please be my guest; and by the way, there is no need to prove to me that it is the right decision to make. If you believe it, then it must be true- I will not try to prove otherwise- just don't pull me into that little game of yours.

I am not perfect. I do not pretend to be. Neither am I going to steal your girlfriend away or your entire business away just because I can or I would. Please do not confuse the actions of others'  towards me as an attack towards you by me. I cannot stop other's from doing what they do- and if you don't like what they do, don't direct your vehemence towards me: half the time, I am minding my own business. The other half, I am just wondering why would anyone do what they do.

The human condition is such that it is complex to decipher and when you decide to take the simplistic manner of sheer compliance- rest assured that I will fight back- simply because it is not my problem, but your's. Do not confuse the actions of other's to be endorsed by me- trust me, you will know when I hit you and when I won't. You can feel it and it is from me- and not by proxy- and you will know who it is from unequivocally.

There are many whom believed that simply by snooping around and intruding into my private space and saying personal snide innuendo- you can take me as a fool- you can take me as a fool. But have you wondered to yourself why go through so much trouble just to prove the "rightness" of one's actions? Next time, make a funny joke or parody- don't go below the belt- I don't mind, doesn't mean that other's cannot taste the bitterness in the remark. Make it funny and entertaining at least- don't make it sound like a sourpuss because everyone will have to manage you from then on. I can be the butt of all the jokes- but make it a "joke" and not a personal vendetta. Not cool at all.

I know I have made many enemies and frenemies along the way- rest assured that I understood all the innuendos along the way and even if I don't, I would eventually taste the fury of your vengeance. But if you wish to attack me, attack me above the belt and in private- otherwise, it makes it uncomfortable for everyone in a tight enclosed space. I am already used to it but many other's don't like to hear sour puss talking. Don't make yourself worse than you already are. You are a human with feelings and emotions-it is ok-, just don't make yourself look like an asshole.

I can safely tell you upfront that you can make me a "butt" of all your jokes- I don't mind- but please at least do it tastefully and do it at least with tinge of irreverence. Otherwise, you are the one looking stupid and not me.

Have Fun.

Eugene