Price

This was written at stadium where I was waiting for the rain stopped before a run at about 6pm on 20/1/13- Sunday:


If there is a market for everything- there must be a price. If there is ridiculous demand for something particular- there must always be a price to pay.

If there is such a thing such as private property- then you must be prepared to pay huge price for defending what you think is your's.

And if you defend only because of exertions then you are simply like a dog running everywhere but really achieving nothing in the end.

Maybe there are a lack of women in this world- but I would think that there should be an approximate equal make-up but the extend of which some have push the 'price' up so high that it is not even all the exertions. It becomes like a wallflower and a Helen in the Troy. Paris lost a city for a woman.

In modern times, chastity is no longer that much of a value and women have already leverage on these by leveraging on their youth and good looks to their advantage. They have simply gather all the bees to the honey and round them up.

They are not really feminist per se but opportunist. Beautiful woman with mindless occupation like attending parties and promoting products is symtomatic of this phenomenon. There is simply no girl power just 'me' power. There are no altruism underneath this sexual undertones- just blatant opportunism.

Hence every time, I enter a public space and anything resembling a woman in revealing clothes enters- the tension rises to a level that everyone thinks that the woman will sleep with every single one of them and all of them have a shot at her.

Hence, everyone suddenly become territorial and defensive as if a stranger will go up to you and say: will you sleep with me tonight- for no apparent reason?

It would be fine so long as they do not intrude to my private space- they think that everyone has the same mentality as him and really I just have the unfortunate coincidence of standing in this situation with unnecessary testorone. I cannot even avoid it even if I can.

The amount of posturing is so irritating that they seem to have skin rash or something or Tourette's syndrome- always fidgeting and scratching.

I mean it's not like I dislike girls or something like that- but you are simply making a straightforward bus trip from A to B like a war. If they so happen to be there and then they so happen to be there. Whatever posturing will not get you the number. I am really unsure of what does is trying to prove.

If you like that girl so much- go and talk to her- what has that got to do with me. In most cases, I am just minding my own business

Trivial this as this might be- but it is almost an over-riding theme every time I enter a crowded public space. I am first to admit that I love women- but no, I will not go scratching myself all over my body just to get their attention. I have no idea what has this got to do with attraction of any kind for that matter.

Maybe they have watch to many animal documentaries- but let me assure you that humans are not attracted by scratching or fidgeting for that matter.

Hence do not confuse me with the lack of instinctive behavior to 'dominate'- simply because I know whatever gesticulating will get me nowhere. Do what you think is comfortable- just don't get me involved.

Everyone has the right to choose- I really don't want to interfere. But I just don't to get involved in your ancient mating ritual. If I think it is worth, I will do something otherwise- rest assured that who you sleep with has absolutely nothing to do with me.

I think on both ends everyone is complicit in this state of affairs. Both sexes- but anyone whom is trying to leverage has to know that there are risk involved. And anyone who has the moral high ground and wishes to take pounce on this opportunity should be aware of the risk one is taking.

I have seen risk taken by both sides- anyone who thinks that they can profit without risking anything might not see the repercussions now but will see when the demand has dropped.

The girl who played with fire- cannot always all the guns blazing- however inappropriate the behavior of those around her. You don't go to the red-light district and pretend that nothing will happened to you simply because you are not a prostitute.

It's not because I am not attracted to you or that you are not beautiful- simply because you are just not worth the risk. I have done my time- and I know who is trouble and who is not.

I have previously have partners which do everything my opposite just to get my attention- I have tried a number of times to advise strongly against. The harder I try, the stronger the the belligerence. It's not that I don't care but you cannot even protect yourself against yourself- there is really nothing I can do.

Hence if I cannot manage you- then you are probably not worth the dinner that I just paid for. Let's just be friends or let's not get too involved. And if we do have something on before- do as I say- it's for your own good. I get no benefits- you do. Anything else, it's not worth it on either side.