On the opposite sex

You see that, there is a need to settle this woman/man thing debate. I begin to realise that everytime, some woman approach me or sort have a chat with me, it must amount to something. This means that I must either be interested or I am not interested in that person. Hence the question I would ask to you, if you don't like chicken does it mean that you like duck instead. This is by the most silliest question I have ever heard.

Pardon me if I am going to be direct and it is going to hurt on this one: the whole point of these is simply that some people cannot comprehend a relationship or just simply an association based on some form which not romantic in nature. It could be professional, it could be platonic, it could be familial, it could academic or it could even be interest, it could be any of these things, why then does everyone conclude that if it is not the chicken, then it must be the duck. And the reason why some people forced one to choose is simply that they cannot accept an alternative beyond this dichotomy. This means that if you are interested, you are with him/her, if you are not, you must be against him/her.

I suspect then this is the result of people's lack of sophistication in handling complicated relationship or secondly, simply just plain jealousy or envy.

For the first, it is the easy part, where if you can set aside your biases, you will be able to handle any situation. For the second, it has a problem with your relationship handling skills. This means that the jealousy and envy goes deeper in the manner by which involves some form of romantic envy and jealousy then actually about whether any romantic interest or not.

You can go to waitress and order anything you want, and not just chicken, if you have such a conception, it must have that you have mixed all your multiple roles and collapse into one simple dichotomy. Romantic or not romantic. I have been hesitant to approach anyone because I do not want to invite unnecessary attention to anyone because I do not wish to embarrass anyone just due to some juvenile's immaturity- especially those without hair on their feet- and some chauvinistic old men, whom have an archaic conception.

And obviously, I knew all about these, that is why I know all these tricks that some of these people play. It is not that I think in these black/white terms, it is especially those: Single, Desperate and Ugly [especially the desperate] that comes up with all these tricks just to invite embarrassment to those around them. If these people were so adept enough, they will not need to invite embarrassment to others and disgust to those around them. It is precisely because they were inept that they need to feel good about themselves by making a mickey out of other people. I recognize these people all around.

And of course there are another group of people, I call it: "we are a couple, please look at me. You sad lonely sod." These people grab each other's boobs in front of broad day light in public places, as if to announce that you don't know what you are missing. Look if that is what you only got to offer, seriously, I know where I can get all my dreams/fantasies fulfilled. This is called the "I have nothing going for me except each other. Hence we love each other." Okay, okay, take it to the bed room and save your life story for everyone. I know you are poor and unsophisticated students and yes, we have a lot sex, so what. that is because, you have nothing better to do. [ I shall stop there]

And then there is another group call the " I am old, but I have a really young and pretty girlfriend or wife." Look, assuming that you are mature and have a lot of life experience to impart: you wouldn't need to show that: "you have a young and pretty girlfriend." The previous premise has already been destroyed. Mature and worldly men do not do this, only old men with the above conception think like that. If you parade your young and pretty girlfriend or wife, it means that you only with her because she is young and pretty. Hence whatever I said above has been thrown out of the window.

It can be said that I have no inclination whatsoever that some guys with this rather strange conception, compel me to do the things I would not wish to rush.

This is not a chicken or duck story- this is a I am sorry where is the menu- and we can take it offline?

P/S: If you are nervous and engage in these activities, it shows. Don't try to fool me, and if you do, you are just inviting irritation from the very people that you are trying to impress: the opposite sex.

Either way, you lose.