I am not sure whether people understand what ideology is about. I have began to notice a reverse discrimination- a sort of affirmative action and a reverse bias towards woman. I am not sure whether women actually realise it, but I would not be very proud of myself if for the reason I am chosen just to fill in the numbers.
I have always felt that women have a lot of potential simply because they have been short-changed for so long and I think that they actually start from a low base- at least from an economic point of view. This means that it is a given that males always have the privilege that now since women have more advantages than men, it would be easier to see the benefits then if they were not around.
I am not trying to give excuses or put down the achievements of women but I just think that since they have been given the first option for so long, and when given the chance, suddenly everyone start lauding what a difference women can make. Sometimes I wonder whether this has been overdone to the point that it has become ideological in that just because men cannot do some things, it is naturally assumed that women can do it better.
I am not going to be politically correct on this statement that aggressive women does not equate to effective "wo-men". The only reason that aggressive "wo-men" have it easier is that it is politically in-correct even to say that "women is worse" and hence "aggression" is the only premise of men. I am not sure whether some people realise that in this age of politically corrected-ness, no one wants to argue with the "aggressive" women because 1) it is politically incorrect to argue with women 2) everyone will say you are bullying a woman.
It is impolite to do all these simply because either way, you just don't look good. But of course women, does it see it in this way, they feel that they have every equal right as men to fight for whatever opportunities available. I do not deny that but what they never realise is that the opportunities available to them is also predicated on their ability to understand the context of their environment in the first place.
No one likes a bitch, and likewise no one likes a bossy and overbearing male boss. I am not sure whether they take this token political corrected-ness as their entitlement to run everyone down. This means that they have taken this "affirmative action" so far that they believed that it is their god given right to be so.
Personally, I do not attempt to run people down, regardless of whether they are men or women. But when a woman does that, it is doubly embarrassing for them because they are women becoming men. This to me has a double effect of making them so undesirable to men.
No matter what we can call equal gender rights or fair opportunities. The truth is that men and women are different. Most have run of the risk of taking advantage of the environment and forget who they really are in the first place: women.
I can reassure you that aggressive women are not welcomed by men. The only reason they are tolerated is that they get to do all the legwork simply because of their gungho attitude and nothing more. They will not be appreciated by men, this I can definitely tell you 100% for sure. Their only consolation is that they are useful to men, and that is as far as they can get with regards to getting affections of men.
I am not sure whether any women whose mothers who tell them that to be docile and submissive- are not that far off the mark, in terms of social evolution is concerned but this has been prevalent for thousand of years and I doubt it is going to go away just because we have computers and robots to do many of our work.
I really am not quite sure why women cannot thread the line between feminity and getting the job done. There are certain things that men cannot do due to social conventions that they are able to get away with. Women can flirt and get things way easier than men simply because it is getting away easy is never a welcomed male trait. If I am woman, the last thing I would throw away is my womanhood in exchange for being to be a second rate men.
Quite frankly, I am not sure what these women are thinking when they do such things. I personally have to worked such women but I can trust you that it is not that I am scared of them but rather, it is politically incorrect to be rude to them. They look bad in front of everyone and once it becomes a habit, it becomes every hard to shake off.
Can you imagine working with a lumbering bulldozer- not very pleasant right. It doesn't matter whether you are a man or woman. A bulldozer is only good for one thing: for bulldozing. And if I need one, I would get a man anytime than a woman.
So, all women should intellectually challenged yourself than to just ride the trends. I can rest assure you that you are not welcome anywhere with that behaviour I described above.
Monday, June 10, 2013
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