Calling each other Mummy and Daddy

You know I hate it when some people, just because they have families or have children, they have this idea that they have the first option on everything. The world will not have many things if this is true all the time. Leonardo Da Vinci never got married. Nobody knew who children of Abraham Lincoln and the third generation of any leader.

It is really quite funny that they have this idea that the whole world belongs to them just because someone calls them a father and just because of that some employers will give them the prerogative.

I can safely assure that it is entirely ideological in the sense where the state needs babies as much as they need the economic growth and then insofar that they have an easy ride because they need a horse for them to ride upon into the next generation. I am not sure whether people, the fathers or mothers actually realise this. But I find it damn irritating when someone throw the family card in a desperate attempt to get a job or anything. Maybe if you say it to make a connection, that would make more sense but just saying it just to make yourself like some papa smurf is very sad.

I have nothing against them but when they start throwing these type of desperate card, you almost have to bite your mouth to keep your mouth shut. 1) It is politically incorrect 2) you hate children. I am neither both, but I just find that it's cop out to throw that family card. In other words, you are just asking for the sympathy card but you are just too embarrassed to say it out loud.

Look you have children and you need money to keep it going but you if you know you can't keep one going, why the hell did you have children in the first place.

But well, the majority wins, the state needs children, everyone have a father or mother and no one really hates kids. The sad thing is that it is very sad thing to see the delibidating state of the parenthood.

Everyone have a biological clock but looking at this sad and quite corrupted state of parenthood, it makes one wonder, why does anyone have children in the first place without first thinking it through. I like to think I am the top 20% of any population and everytime I look at the state of parenthood, it makes me wonder why does anyone want to bring in a person into this world without really thinking it through that what they give to them.

In public places, where the little kid screams out "daddy' or mummy or the "wife actually call the husband, I almost always cringe. But it is very politically incorrect. But it is very easy to hit out on the young kids having fun and sometimes, I do that just because it was abit easier. But in reality, these large family moving around like they own the whole place, really makes me cringe a lot.

I like to have some "alone" time and I don't need anyone to tell me that my parents are working and I am out in a café doing my own thing- maybe I just enjoy it and I really don't need anyone to tell me that they are busy- because I know they are busy.

I have friends whom have children and their kids are very cute but it doesn't mean that I want to be like them. There are so many lifestyle choices- maybe the state does not priviledge us, that I can almost understand but it doesn't mean that you order one drink and have 7 people- 5 whom are children- you have the right to scream and make a din. I think people have a tolerance level- even political correctedness- hence don't push it.

Therefore I would suggest that before fathers and mothers think they own the place just  because they have some unruly kids running up and down, it does not mean that people like you guys very much. I moved alone, I can tolerate couples having lovey dovey moments- at least they are quiet, and so long as they don't do it just to elicit to other people attention and unruly younh teenagers criticizing their peers on their hair to where they sit- but I cannot stand is big families making a huge racket. Simply because they push their moral right so far that they make everyone irritated with them and everyone has acqueise just because other people's children is other people's problem.

Some managers should step in and set a line to these people because some patrons are suffering in silence as families is like people's religion, no one criticizes them. But some managers look like they don't give a damn at all. But well, after a while, in most places such as restaurants and cafes, it is these people that spend the most hence I am not sure whether these people know what they are doing.

But they will still continue to make a racket and I can only hope for one thing, to all wives and husbands, do not call each other mummy or daddy in front of everyone. It is very irritating.